{"id":106205,"date":"2026-07-30T04:19:08","date_gmt":"2026-07-30T04:19:08","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/honglay168.com\/?p=106205"},"modified":"2026-07-30T04:19:08","modified_gmt":"2026-07-30T04:19:08","slug":"at-sixteen-i-became-pen-pals-with-a-young-soldier-named-eddie-then-without-warning-his-letters-stopped-and-i-spent-decades-believing-id-never-know-why-more-than-fifty-years-later-a-chance-mee-8","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/honglay168.com\/?p=106205","title":{"rendered":"At sixteen, I became pen pals with a young soldier named Eddie. Then, without warning, his letters stopped, and I spent decades believing I&#8217;d never know why. More than fifty years later, a chance meeting at a veterans&#8217; museum reunited us\u2014and a bundle of unopened letters revealed that neither of us had ever stopped writing. 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