For years, my husband insisted there was nothing wrong with always being available for his ex, even when it hurt our marriage. The moment my own ex sent me an innocent text asking for a recipe, his reaction revealed the truth: the issue had never been trust. It was that he expected one set of rules for himself—and another for me.
When people asked me what the biggest problem in my marriage was, they expected me to say communication. Or money. Or stress. The truth was much simpler. Different rules. For …
For years, my husband insisted there was nothing wrong with always being available for his ex, even when it hurt our marriage. The moment my own ex sent me an innocent text asking for a recipe, his reaction revealed the truth: the issue had never been trust. It was that he expected one set of rules for himself—and another for me. Read More
