I used to believe cheating was something only selfish people did. Then I became the person I never thought I could be. That doesn’t excuse my choices, but it taught me that affairs often begin long before another person enters the picture—and understanding why something happened is not the same as defending it.
I used to judge people who cheated. Honestly? I judged them harshly. My opinion was simple. If you’re unhappy, leave. If you want someone else, leave. If your marriage is …
I used to believe cheating was something only selfish people did. Then I became the person I never thought I could be. That doesn’t excuse my choices, but it taught me that affairs often begin long before another person enters the picture—and understanding why something happened is not the same as defending it. Read More
